Old Money Aesthetics: The Ultimate Guide to a Luxury Destination Wedding

Old Money Aesthetic for a Destination Wedding

We have had many weddings & private events on our private 20 acre estate. Each year there are new trends that wedding couples can choose from. One of my favorites is Old Money. There’s an undeniable charm to the "Old Money Aesthetic"—a timeless blend of elegance, tradition, and understated luxury. When it comes to weddings, this style embodies classic sophistication with a focus on refined details, historic settings, and a color palette that speaks to grandeur: black, white, gold, pearls, and lush greenery. If you’re dreaming of an elopement or a destination wedding that exudes wealth, grace, and a bygone era’s charm, we’ve curated the best places to elope and ways to incorporate this iconic aesthetic into your special day. This is an Ultimate Guide to a Luxury Destination Wedding with Old Money Aesthetics.

Start the Aesthetics off with your invitations. Inform your guests what colors to wear or not to wear. Have fun with the idea of creating something special just for the two of you.

Find ways to incorporate old money aesthetics into your wedding gown. Arianna incorporated a beautiful handmade embroidery veil.

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Why Choose an Old Money Aesthetic for Your Wedding?

The old money wedding look is all about effortless elegance—no trends, no extravagance for the sake of it, just pure refinement. Picture candlelit dinners in historic ballrooms, stately mansions with ivy-covered facades, and soft classical music echoing through grand corridors. The color scheme is timeless: black and white for contrast, gold for opulence, pearls for delicate touches, and deep greens for a natural, stately feel.

Candlelit dinners are timeless.

Old Money Trends, incorporate it into your wedding day activities.

Bourbon is always a special beverage to incorporate for your Old Money Aesthetics.

A Wedding Experience for you and your guests is important for them to remain throughout the evening. A cigar bar vendor may be a great addition to incorporate for your event.

The Experience: A Wedding Steeped in Tradition and Luxury

A wedding inspired by old money elegance isn’t just about a venue—it’s about an experience. Imagine stepping into a world where sophistication reigns, from the moment guests arrive to the final toast of the evening. A grand entrance with a vintage car, a cocktail hour with tuxedoed waiters offering champagne on silver trays, and a candlelit reception under chandeliers set the tone for an unforgettable evening. Attention to detail, impeccable service, and an air of exclusivity define the experience of an old money wedding.

Architecture & Elegance: The Foundation of a Classic Wedding

A venue’s estate and architecture plays a vital role in setting the stage for an elegant wedding. Leeric Lodge & Resort on Center Hill Lake embodies some of these elegance; offering rolling hills akin to the misty Scottish Highlands during morning hours and intimate poolside settings reminiscent of an Italian villa wedding. If you can’t make it to Lake Como, you can still find luxury without going overseas. Ask your photographer(s), florist, videographer, decorator, baker, DJ, Band, wedding planner for advise how each of your professional vendors can help create the old money aesthetics you are envisioning for your day.

Center Hill Lake in Silver Point, Tennessee on a foggy morning can look very similar the green coasts in Ireland.

Poolside photography with some professional photography editing can allow for all your Old Money style stand out.

The Gatsby Era: Recreating the Roaring Twenties at Your Wedding

The 1920s were a time of opulence, jazz, and extravagant parties—a perfect inspiration for couples wanting to infuse their wedding with old-world glamour. Think champagne towers, Art Deco-inspired invitations, and a live jazz band setting the mood. Incorporate vintage-style attire, with the groom in a tailored tuxedo and the bride in a sleek satin gown with pearl embellishments. For decor, crystal chandeliers, feather centerpieces, and gold accents capture the essence of Gatsby’s world.

Timeless Old-World Hospitality: Elevating the Guest Experience

What sets an old money wedding apart is the hospitality. Create an immersive experience with:

• A cigar bar for guests to enjoy a sophisticated indulgence.

• White-gloved waiters serving champagne during cocktail hour.

• Handwritten place cards and wax-sealed menus for a personal, elegant touch.

• A string quartet or grand piano playing soft, classical music during dinner.

• A farewell gift of fine chocolates or vintage wines as a token of appreciation.

Cozy Elegance & Rich Heritage: The Decor Details That Matter

The right decor pieces bring a sense of history and warmth to an old money wedding. Incorporate:

• Velvet seating and antique furniture, such as gilded chairs or mahogany tables, for a rich, textural contrast.

• Grand floral arrangements with white roses, orchids, and cascading greenery to add timeless beauty.

• Gilded mirrors and vintage candelabras to create an intimate, candlelit ambiance.

• Pearl and gold-trimmed accents on table settings and stationery for a touch of refined luxury.

• Family heirlooms or antique silverware to add a personal, meaningful touch to the tablescape.

Elope in Style: The Best Places to Elope for an Old Money Vibe

Eloping doesn’t mean sacrificing grandeur. If you want an intimate wedding with all the elegance of a grand affair, consider these stunning destinations:

• Leeric Lodge & Resort on Center Hill Lake – Whether exchanging vows with the rolling hills as your backdrop, reminiscent of the Scottish Highlands, or hosting an intimate wedding poolside like an Italian villa, this hidden gem offers a luxurious alternative to a European destination wedding.

• Nothing says luxury like exchanging vows on a villa terrace overlooking the water.

• The City of Love, of course Paris is the pinnacle for this; but still can be achieved by offering old-world romance, Set your wedding for February 14th with a rich red and black theme for a dramatic, classic look.

• If you crave dramatic landscapes with a regal touch, rolling green hills for an intimate, unforgettable wedding, Leeric Lodge & Resort offer the mountainous greenery April - September months. 

Final Thoughts

An old money aesthetic wedding is about more than just luxury—it’s about timeless refinement, a sense of history, and an effortless elegance that never goes out of style. Whether you choose a grand historic venue or an intimate elopement in a breathtaking destination, let classic beauty guide every detail. The best places to elope and luxury wedding experiences are waiting to bring your timeless vision to life.

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